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Survivor Moms: Women's Stories of Birthing, Mothering and Healing after Sexual Abuse |  | Authors: Mickey Sperlich MA CPM, Julia Seng PhD CNM
Publisher: Motherbaby Press
Category: Book
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Sales Rank: 446174
Media: Paperback
Pages: 245
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Dimensions (in): 8.9 x 6 x 0.5
ISBN: 1890446416
EAN: 9781890446413
ASIN: 1890446416
Publication Date: 2008
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Product Description
Survivor Moms Speak Out!
One in four women in the United States is estimated to have been sexually assaulted at least once in her life, according to research reported in 1993. Since childbearing is a transformational step for women, how will survivors of childhood sexual abuse, with extra layers of challenges, cope with those changes? And just as importantly, how will her midwife, health practitioner, counselor, friends and family respond to her needs so that her experience with childbearing, birthing and mothering will be the most rewarding for her and her child?
Its pages are overflowing with candid, touching and eye-opening first-hand experiences of 80 women who have survived their abuse and are on their rocky but empowering journey toward awareness and healing. Through their initiation into motherhood, these women are made to face, sometimes reluctantly, their painful past and then to find the strength to move on--to be the parent theyve always wanted to have and to inspire a world they want their children to grow and thrive in.
The authors have between them 20+ years of midwifery experience. Their passion and fervor for empowering women became the fire that warmed and nurtured the idea to conceive this book. Survivor Moms aims to educate readers about the affects of sexual abuse to women (and in some cases, men), and to show how its ripples will affect everyone in its wake. Read the research from many professionals across various disciplines who address the issues of sexual abuse, the affects it has on women and the options toward healing.
Visit www.survivormoms.com for more information about the authors, excerpts and resources.
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 A Must Read For Mothers Abused As A Child August 17, 2009
E. D. Champe (Maryland)
Survivor Moms is an excellent book for all mothers or mothers-to-be who were themselves abused as a child. For many survivors, it is not until a life-changing event occurs, such as having a child, do they look back at what happened to them and how it has affected their lives. Child sexual abuse impacts every aspect of a survivor's development: mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually, and sexually. Naturally, a woman about to begin her own journey with bringing a child into the world, will want to understand how her own abuse may impact the life of the child she is about to deliver. This book provides in-depth discussions about many issues that are usually dealt with in therapy. It also highlights individual survivor stories which describe a lot of the internal struggles mothers have to grapple with to deal with their past on the eve of a new journey. I would highly recommend Survivor Moms as both an adjunct to their therapy as well as hearing what other women have said who have dealt with the same issues.
An Opportunity for Healing August 8, 2009
Mindy Levy (Israel)
Survivor Moms is one of the most relevant and useful books about maternity that I have read in the last few years. As a homebith midwife I work with many women who are post-traumatic and this book has become invaluable to me. As an educator of midwives and doulas I use this book as a reference when I teach about the healing power of birth. It brings forth the lives of women who have survived abuse in a very real and tangible manner and opens up to the caregiver a world of understanding. From this vantage point, the opportunities for healing become more visible and attainable. Women who are post-traumatic deserve excellent care, and those who want to provide it have much to gain by reading this book. Survivor Moms should be required reading for everyone who works with women before, during and after birth who wants to become a part of the healing process.
Survivor Moms Speak Out! July 7, 2009
Story Circle Book Reviews (www.storycirclebookreviews.org)
2 out of 2 found this review helpful
Sexual abuse affects a woman's entire life. Survivor Moms: Women's Stories of Birthing, Mothering and Healing after Sexual Abuse forges into areas that are in early stages of research: how the effects of abuse trauma and posttraumatic stress affect women who are bearing children, parenting, and health issues that center around healing from sexual abuse. It moves us solidly ahead in both understanding and providing support for the difficult healing journey that sexually abused women travel.
The intent of Survivor Moms is two-fold: to be a resource for healing abused women and to assist professionals who work with these women. Authors Mickey Sperlich and Julia Seng acknowledge the issues are intense and reading the book may be difficult. They present the material in three separate, but simultaneous ways. As the authors' text flows, the women's stories are interjected and italicized, while supportive resources are enclosed in side bars. This provides easy visual access to the information the reader seeks. For example, a survivor might choose to simply read other survivor's stories in order to validate her own experiences. A therapist may lean toward the narrative and resource references.
Pregnancy, labor and birth, postpartum and breastfeeding, mothering and attachment, and healing and survivorship are examined covered. Here is an excerpt from Chapter One: Life Before Mothering. It opens with Kay's story:
"So here I am. Pregnant with another boy. This will be our third. I never thought that I would be the mother to little boys. When I was younger, whenever I pictured myself with kids, I always pictured girls. Perhaps it was because it was familiar to me because, being a girl myself, I could relate and understand what it was like to be a female. Well, at least that's what I tell myself.
From infancy to my early teenage years I was sexually abused by a man. Namely, my father. I can remember being terrified by any male, very early on, because I knew what they were capable of doing to me..."
Survivor Moms brims with courage, wisdom, and honesty. The book concludes by stating that more research is needed. Sperlich and Seng have been intimately involved with survivors through their midwifery practices and have heard their stories. Sperlich tells us, "...many accounts address how pregnancy and birth were affected, but overall, the message of these stories is that abuse, and the reactions women have to abuse, affect the whole life of the mother, from thinking about having children all the way to being a grandmother, and that the effects are far-reaching and deeply felt."
by Mary Jo Doig
for Story Circle Book Reviews
reviewing books by, for, and about women
A wonderful book on a crucial and often-overlooked subject September 29, 2008
Karen Witham
5 out of 5 found this review helpful
Conceiving, bearing, and raising a child are amazing miracles and provide countless gifts to parents. However, these momentuous events and changes can be enormously challenging for many of us.
This book touches specifically on the challenges faced by moms who have been the victims of -- or rather, are now survivors of -- sexual abuse. The very nature of pregnancy, birth, and parenting can raise long-buried demons or even exacerbate ones that are actively being dealt with.
As a survivor mom, I was so relieved to find that this book even existed -- there is precious little written about this subject. Some of my experiences with care providers during my first pregnancy -- and experiences during and after childbirth -- had left me feeling unheard, violated, and/or emotionally upset.
This book was reassurance that I was not alone, that my experiences and feelings were "normal," and that I had a right to be treated gently and respectfully during pregnancy, childbirth and beyond. It has also been an amazing source of strength for me as I read other womens' stories, learn about ways to cope with the issues brought on by the abuse I experienced, and as I use my ever-stronger resolve to be in a much stronger, healthier, aware place during my second pregnancy and birth.
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